New to anal play? Do not worry! All anal adventurers have to start somewhere. I myself enjoy anal play. Though 1-2 years of experience and exploration I have discovered the most pleasurable ways to enjoy anal play. For My Sissygasm Challenge, My sissies will have to use butt plugs and dildos to experience a sissygasm.
What is Anal Play?
Both female and male people can experience wonderful stimulation through anal. In this Anal How To guide I will be speaking on My experience as an AMAB (assigned male at birth). Inserting toys, fingers or another’s genitalia in their anus could be considered anal play. Thrusting with a dildo or sitting comfortably with a butt plug is considered anal play too. Anal stimulation is different and unique for each person.
Why Anal Play?
People engage in anal play for a variety of reasons. I believe the common reason is for pleasure. Me personally I enjoy butt plugs. The feeling of a toy filling My ass is incredible. Plugs that tickle the prostate are incredibly joyful. Most men or AMAB’s enjoy anal play for the prostate stimulation. In My experience, prostate stimulation is much more euphoric than any penile stimulation. Others may achieve the type of stimulation with dildos or another’s fingers.
Douching and Cleaning
My biggest struggle and turn off about anal for a long time was keeping My ass pussy clean. After months of experimenting with my bum, I found a routine that will keep your ass pussy clean! Through months of reading and trial and error, I finally found a routine that works for Me. So here is how I do it:
High Fiber Diet
To start I take dietary vitamins. I suggest and use myself Pure For Men. If you don’t have a high fiber diet, taking dietary vitamins can really boost your fiber levels which in turn results in packing your fecal matter tighter which helps leave less loose fecal matter in your rectum. Fiber has other health benefits as well. Make sure to drink plenty of water and stay hydrated.
I wait 2-3 hours after consuming a meal to before I even lay a finger on my hole. You have to let your body digest and usually this takes 2-3 hours. Having a bowel movement before douching will help the cleansing process even more. Drinking a lot of water helps the cleansing even more.
Douching
Now this step is critical for Me. Going through this process gives Me the confidence to do anal cleanly. Douching. I use a 5 ounce bulb and fill myself with 10 ounces. The best position I found for this is to lay your face and chest to the floor with your ass pointing to the sky. Once I’m filled to that amount I take 10 deep breaths and relax. Then I expel the water. Sit on the toilet with your legs elevated. A Squatty Potty or a short stool helps elevates your legs. This position allows for a more open pathway for residue and water to leave your rectum. I go through this process about 3 or 4 times until the water that’s pouring out of My hole is crystal clean. Once it’s clean wait for about a half an hour to let any excess water to leave your rectum. Then you’re ready to get fucked!
In Conclusion
Through a lot of reading and researching on the matter, I found a common theme. Not only do you have to be prepared physically for anal, but you have to be mentally prepared. You have to be relaxed. If at any time you feel pain or discomfort you should really stop and try again another day. Believe me it took me months to find a routine and techniques to keep my hole clean.
So in conclusion I offer a 3 step process; take fiber supplements, allow your body to digest for 2-3 hours after a meal and douche with small amounts of water! This process works for me and I hope it works for you!!
Now That You Douched
The best place to start exploring anal play is by inserting your own fingers inside yourself. Start slow and use plenty of lube. Once inside yourself slowly feel around. See what feels good and what doesn’t. You do not want to start with a massive butt plug or dildo. Using a toy that you haven’t worked up to can cause issues. The anal rectum is delicate tissue and can rupture very easily.
If you’re taking part in My Sissygasm Challenge then you’ll be using a butt plug. As I suggested in My blog post The Sissygasm Starter Pack, if you’re new to anal play start with a small butt plug. Before you insert the plug open up your anus by slowly fingering yourself. Once you are loosened up a little bit lube up your plug and insert it slowly. Stop at any time you begin to feel discomfort or pain. Once the plug is in it will stop right at the flare and you have begun day 3 of My Sissygasm Challenge!
Start Day 3: Butt Plug
